Here's a forgotten truth about Valentine's Day: You can express your affection for someone without spending a fortune. I'm not saying you have to cheap out, merely that thoughtfulness usually beats extravagance. The home-cooked dinner, the handwritten card, the fun activity you planned because you love doing things together -- your special someone is likely to appreciate these things more than a huge flower arrangement, an expensive restaurant or lavish gifts.
With that in mind, I've rounded up some suggestions for the frugal-minded, some affordable alternatives to traditional Valentine's Day gifts. And remember, these can all work in addition to a traditional gift, too -- it doesn't have to be either/or.
Opt for outings
It's a common refrain these days that experiences are more memorable than physical things. Indeed, what's your significant other more likely to recall fondly: flowers that died in a week or the painting class the two of you took together?
That's why I'm a strong proponent of planning an outing. It shows you put some thought into the occasion. It gives you an activity to do together (and being together is what it's all about, right?). And it creates memories -- not something you typically get from yet another restaurant dinner.
Here are a few ideas, along with some estimated costs:
Remember, it's not critical that you do your activity on Valentine's Day proper (which is a Friday this year). But you can announce the gift of the activity -- and, hey, anticipation is half the fun.
I'll also note that while the movie option may seem a little boring, it's still two hours in the dark with your beloved. You can mix it up by seeing a classic or art-house film, something out of the ordinary. But I recommend picking a flick they want to see, not whatever's at the top of your list.
Save on flowers (or skip them altogether)
How important are flowers on Valentine's Day? Probably less than you think. Last year I conducted a Twitter poll, and fewer than 10% of respondents said flowers were "fully expected." The vast majority were split between "not essential, but nice" and "not expected/wanted." (Important disclaimer: I have no idea as to the gender breakdown of the respondents.)
That "meh" attitude toward flowers is good news, because flower prices have already jumped and are about to get higher. A bouquet of roses that cost $35 in early January may now be selling for $45-$50 -- perhaps higher, depending on where you buy.
Translation: skip 'em. Or, if you like the symbolism of the gesture, a single rose or tulip or carnation will do just fine. Consider this response from @chieflittletoes to the aforementioned poll:
source - https://www.cnet.com/how-to/valentines-day-2020-gift-ideas-for-a-limited-budget/
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